Curly hair is sometimes quite a bitch. Not only that it just always turns its own way but is most of the time dry like the desert with no healthy appearance or after 2 days completely without volume.
Once in 6 or lately 8 weeks please go out for a cut . Do not forget that washing every day damages more than it helps and use a conditioner!
If you got straight hair use a diffuser when drying and don’t brush it so the volume maintains for the next days.
And last but not least don’t overwax what you got. No woman wants to have greasy hands after a romantic kiss by touching your head .